You Don’t Need to Know Someone to Make It — Breaking the Nepo Baby Myth
Courtesy of Andrea Piacquadio
The film industry — like many creative fields — has a reputation for being closed off and exclusive. And honestly? There’s a reason for that. For decades, people have talked about “nepo babies” — children of industry insiders who seem to get handed opportunities on a silver platter.
This reality can feel daunting if you don’t come from that background. It might make you wonder, “How am I supposed to get my foot in the door if I don’t have a famous relative or friend?”
Here’s the truth: while nepotism exists, it’s not the only way to break in. You don’t need to be “connected” to start building a career in film or any creative industry. I know this because I’ve been there — without a Hollywood plug, but with a story to tell and a relentless drive.
Why Nepo Babies Seem to Dominate
Nepotism can give people early access to insider knowledge, mentorship, and jobs — no doubt. It’s a built-in network that can fast-track opportunities. But it’s also something that’s increasingly under scrutiny. Audiences and industry leaders alike are pushing for more transparency, equity, and access.
The internet has become the great equalizer. Now, a short film uploaded to Vimeo or a well-produced reel on TikTok can gain traction in ways that weren’t possible even a decade ago. Talent still matters. And more importantly, so does the ability to find your audience without waiting for permission.
How to Build Your Own Network
If you’re starting without connections, it’s tempting to feel stuck. But here’s the thing: building your network is part of the craft.
Create consistently: Your work is your portfolio. Whether it's short films, scripts, video essays, or even behind-the-scenes content — show what you can do.
Be genuinely curious: DM that filmmaker you admire. Leave a thoughtful comment. Build connections the way you’d build friendships — with authenticity, not agenda.
Find your community: Attend local film events, join niche online groups, participate in challenges. These spaces are where future collaborators (and maybe your first big break) live.
Say yes to learning: Workshops, classes, and even YouTube tutorials are powerful. Sharpening your skills gives you an edge — even over those with the inside track.
Talent and Tenacity Matter
Here’s what gatekeepers can’t manufacture: your voice, your perspective, your lived experience. That’s what sets you apart. And that’s what makes your presence in the industry necessary.
Every success story starts with a choice: keep going, even when it’s hard. Even when no one’s watching. Even when it feels like you’re building from nothing. Because in reality? You’re building from something powerful — your passion, your purpose, and your persistence.
Final Thoughts
The myth that you have to “know someone” to make it is just that — a myth. What you do need is discipline, creativity, and the courage to start where you are.
You don’t have to be a nepo baby to succeed. You just have to show up — again and again — with the kind of hunger that turns obstacles into opportunities.
You’re not behind. You’re just getting started.
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